Dawn Nocera

Category: Coaching Skills

  • The First Law of The Universe is ORDER

    The First Law of The Universe is ORDER

    I appreciate myself for being awake and conscious enough to know that if I see chaos in my outerworld it must also be present in my inner world. I appreciate myself for the great amount of self-appreciation that supports me as I recognize it is within me without judging or trying to figure it out. I simply know to be calm and breathe and be aware of my feelings.  Free from any self-judgment, I can simply activate order in my life and allow it to be my reality without fighting or judging the chaos. The chaos then appears to be light and order.

    This is how I manifest order out of chaos.

    I am the one who gets to decided the order of values that my life flows from.  This is the order I choose:

    1. The First Order of being is through Grace & Ease … This is the domain of the Divine and Divine Love
    2. The Second Order of being is through Self-Love & Self-Appreciation… This is the domain of the Divine in Me
    3. The Third Order of being is through Activating & Using My Gifts… This is the domain of Divine expression through me.
    4. The Forth Order of being is through Activating the Gifts in Others... This is the domain of Divine service to the world.

    This feels like the Divine Order of my life. I am grateful that I remembered what I came here to do.

    I came here to be IN LOVE WITH LIFE and to share my love with others.

    This week I facilitated “The Sacred Art of Self-Appreciation Workshop” that allowed me to share more intimately the power of self-love & self-appreciation with other women and to deepen my understanding of how Divine Order supports my expansion.  Facilitating activated all 4 orders of being, Divine Love, Divine in Me, Divine Expression, Divine Service.  Simple.  Truly simple.

    Nothing feels as good to me as activating self-appreciation in the world around me and helping you learn how to authentically appreciate yourself.

    Join me for my next “The Sacred Art of Self-Appreciation” workshop online.

    Click here to register for the next virtual workshop.
  • What is an Activation Statement?

    What is an Activation Statement?

    If you love affirmations and you enjoy the shifts they help you create in your life, you’ll love Activations.  After posting a simple image post with an #Activation, I received some feedback and a few questions regarding the difference between the two.  I wanted to share that conversation with you…

    Here is a look at the post I shared about Purpose #Activations on Facebook:

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    ‪#‎ACTIVATED‬

    So What Are Activations?

    • Activations are powerful statements with the sole/soul purpose of Activating your DNA – Divine Natural Alignment(TM).
    • Activations “turn on” the lights of who you already are.
    • Activations feel powerful the first time you say them, because they come from a place of power within you.

    What is the difference between an Activation and an Affirmation?

    Here is a piece of the conversation that deeped the awareness of the power of Activations:

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    So, What Is The Difference?

    • Affirmations are convincing statements, designed to convince ourselves through “I am” statements.
    • Activations are statements of truth, they “turn you on” when you say them.
    • The most powerful activation statements start with “I am activated!”
    • Affirmations are designed to help you change your perception of what is.
    • Activations are designed to help you own the power of your truth so you can take action that flows with ease from you.
    • Activations don’t have to start with “I am.”
    • Activaitons ignite higher frequencies and powerful emotions.

    Here are some great #Activations to help you Activate (Turn on) your DNA Divine Natural Alignment(TM).

    “I am activated to peace, joy, and fun in my life.”

    “I am activated to share my gifts and my light.”

    “I rock!”  (One of my favorites!)

    “I was born for this!”

    “I activate truth in this situation.”

    “I am activated to higher and higher freqencies!”

    You almost want to put an exclaimation point(!) at the end of each activation statement.  They make you feel that good.

    Affirmations without the feelings have no power, which is why learning about activation statements can really help.  I love affirmations and activations.  The real magic is in choosing statements that trigger feelings that light you up and make you feel more YOU!

    My personal activation statement helps me stay focused on the value I provide to the world.  “I activate Self-Appreciation!”  And it keeps me moving, and sharing, and connecting with more people who want to activate the magic in their world.

    Oh, If you want to connect with Cindy and read her affirmations book or view her activating art (yes, art activates!) you can find her at CindyHeadley.com, or check out her book on Amazon.

    If you want to connect to your activation code and your soul’s purpose,  consider scheduling an Activation Code Reading Session here.

  • Stop Trying To Figure This Out

    Stop Trying To Figure This Out

    Dearest Luminary Entrepreneur,  The hardest thing you’ll ever do is to stop trying to fix it. (whatever “it” is.) There is nothing to fix, or figure out. Your expansion and alignment come from being at peace with where you are. Feel yourself feel those feelings. Transmute the thoughts of “I should be farther along than this!” to “Look how far I’ve come!”

    Please, stop trying to figure out what is wrong with you. There is NOTHING wrong with you. I appreciate you. The only work you need to do is appreciate yourself. And when the ego says, “I could never do that!” That is when you dive deep and learn to appreciate yourself the most. In ALL of my years of learning, praying, growing, studying, mastering the mind, writing, then teaching, and training, and coaching, and speaking, and creating, NOTHING has made as big of an impact on my life than the work of self-appreciation. This is not just true for me, it is true for the people I’ve shared the sacred art of self-appreciation with. You can’t own your greatness until you accept and appreciate yourself where you are.

    There is a lot of talk about ‘gratitude,’ however I’ve found that gratitude misses the mark for me and I practed gratitude (still do to some extent) consistently for 10 years. Gratitude says, “Thanks for being in my life. I like having you here.” Appreciation says, “I see the VALUE in your presence in my life. I get you. You increase who I am.” Discovering the value of yourself is the work of self-appreciation. You don’t see it all at once, however when you practice appreciating yourself daily, through writing, sharing with others how you appreciate yourself, you release all of the “shoulds” in your life and you find your authentic desires. The law of desire sets in an you can’t help but grow with more ease and grace. You have more faith in your direction, a clearer mind, an open heart, and you become aware that everything you’ve been looking for is right there inside of you all the time.

    I hear you asking for help to find what is broken in you. The only thing that is broken is your ability to love and appreciate yourself.

    You think your abilty to manifest is broken? No, just your ability to appreciate yourself. You think your confidence is broken? No, just your ability to authentically appreciate yourself. You think your relationship is broken? No, just your ability to appreciate yourself. You think your finances are broken? Appreciate yourself!   YOU are your point of attraction. YOU are the center of YOUR universe. YOU are the light you seek. YOU are not and never have been broken.

    I know there is nothing I can do to convince you that BIG changes come from this simple practice. You just have to try it for yourself. And let me know how the work of self-appreciation works for you.

  • How to Overcome Invisible Fences in Business

    How to Overcome Invisible Fences in Business

    Empire Building Master Mind Hangout #18 –
    “Overcoming Invisible Fences” The Paradigms that will stop you from planting the necessary seeds for success.

    Discover what is stopping you from achieving what you want in your business and in your life and become familiar with how your invisible fences show up so you can recognize them for what they are (indicators of growth) so you can lean into your success instead of stopping short of having it all.

    Notes:

    • Invisible Fences show up as Doubt, Worry, Fear, and Indecision
    • Invisible Fences are there to protect us and keep us safe and comfortable.
    • If you want to experience a transformation and manifest different results in life you must learn to recognize your invisible fences as soon as they show up.
    • There is no need to force yourself through your invisible fences.
    • Self-appreciation can help you become a more conscious manifestor of what you want.

    Books Mentioned in this Episode:

    • Manifesting for Non-Gurus by Robert MacPhee
  • How to Create Ease and Peace of Mind

    How to Create Ease and Peace of Mind

    How to Create Ease and Peace of Mind in Your Business.

    Having the right mindset contributes to at least 80% of the success or failure in business.

    We think that because we are growing a business it has to be hard work.  However I’ve found that when you are expressing your gifts and talents through your work, sharing your authentic value with clients, and you are receiving value in the form of profits, your work becomes so natural that it energizes you.

    We view business from a very limited perspective and our ideas of business usually come from the entrepreneurs that surround us, or even our mentors.  We look at someone’s thriving business and we think, “My God! That looks incredibly hard!   There is no way I can do have a business like theirs.” or we think it has to be complicated.

    In truth most businesses started with one simple idea.  One simple a-ha moment where an entrepreneur thinks, “I really love this _____!”  I think can make money doing this.

    Here are a few tips to help you create ease and peace of mind while you are building and running your business:

    • Start out with the intention to allow building your business to be simple and easy.
    • Ease and peace of mind comes from knowing that you and your business are connected.  (you are one!)
    • Since you are your business are one, your business can guide you!
    • Follow your intuition and inner guidance along the way and create your business from a deep connection to Infinite Intelligence, God, Source, from your DNA (your Divine Natural Alignment)
    • Know where you are going.  I am not a fan of goals however I am a big fan of creating a vision for your business.
    • Practice breathing.  A lot.  Sometimes we hold our breaths and hope for the best, and that is not good for our bodies.  Learn to breathe deeply and appreciate yourself for being in the game of life instead of watching from the side lines.  Breathing is a powerful tool when you are mastering peace of mind and creating ease in your business.

     

  • Intuition or Reason to Run Your Business?

    What system do you use to grow your business?

    Do you know when to use your intuition to help grow your business and when reason is best?

     

     

    The whole idea of System 1 and System 2 came from Daniel Kahneman.  In his book, Thinking, Fast and Slow.  Kahneman describes two systems of thinking, System 1 is the Intuitive system, which is fast and as he says, unreliable, and System 2 is slow, steady, and runs on past knowledge and experience.

    I like using System 1.  It is entirely more fun, gives me energy, and always leaves me with a sense of wellbeing.  System 2 on the other hand makes me feel “stuck,” which is why I rely on other people and systems to provide me with the data so I can let System 1 guide me to the next action to take in my business.

    The problem for most people is they run their entire business on System 2.  They create a business based on Reason.  They see a need in the market place and they do research and the research shows that it would be a great business to start.  They create a business plan, and they may even use a proven system to market their idea.   Then when it is time to implement their business, or launch it, they fall short because they have no INSPIRATION to keep motivated and energized to move the idea forward.   If their numbers go down, they look within the numbers to see where they can shuffle things around to make things work, cut back here, hold off on this marketing idea there, and they totally miss the opportunity to build a business that is designed to think outside of the numbers.  This is where System 1 comes into play.

    System 1 is about possibilities, boundlessness, inspiration, and creativity.

    Practice using both systems together when you are making decisions, solving problems and creating change in your business.   You may find that thinking outside of your natural system will help you create the change that you want.

    And if you just can’t seem to see a solution call in your mastermind partners to help you access the solution.

    I’d love to know what system you naturally use to run your business.

    Leave a comment and share your a-has, your opinions, and your advice on using either reason or intuition in business.

    Until next time, “BE Grateful, Think BIG, Take INSPIRED Action, and ENJOY the Journey!”

     

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    Dawn R Nocera,  Success Mindset Mentor, mentors entrepreneurs in over 7 countries to help them grow their current businesses profits while leveraging their time so they can have the time and energy to do the things they really want to in life. 

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    A special note of gratitude to the newest members of my community who are actively sharing these mindset tips with their personal & professional communities.   Much love to you, and may you experience meaning and purpose in living truly abundant lives! 

  • How to Create A Personal Philosophy

    How to Create A Personal Philosophy

    How to Create A Personal Philosophy so you can Love Your Business and Your Life!  

    In a previous post I shared the difference between BEing more and DOing more. 

    When you are BEING more, you naturally ATTRACT more opportunity for growth and expansion in both your business and in your life. 

    Having a personal philosophy simply reminds you how you want to BE in any situation. 

    Bruce Lee discovered a simple guiding philosophy for living in the statement, “Be like water.”  And from that one statement he created a (more…)

  • Do You Want to Attract High Paying Clients?

    Do You Want to Attract High Paying Clients?

    Have you ever wondered how to attract high paying clients? 

    Imagine receiving email, snail mail, and phone calls from past clients thanking you for the work you did with them.  Imagine that each one of those testimonials comes from grateful clients who went through your program and received amazing results beyond what they ever dreamed was possible.    (more…)

  • Are You Willing to Take the First Steps to Success?

    Are You Willing to Take the First Steps to Success?

    Do you want more personal power in your life and for your business?  

    How would it feel to be able to do the things that you know you should do, but you just can’t bring yourself to do?

    What about raising your fees, hiring a new employee, asking for the sale, increasing the cooperation between the members of your family, or even facilitating your first mastermind group?

    These are just some of the smallest actions that you can take in business that have the potential to create the biggest (more…)

  • How to Skyrocket Your Effectiveness in Business

    How to Skyrocket Your Effectiveness in Business

    I’m not sure what I forgot to do this time, but it was something important and my 16 year old daughter looked at me with concern and asked, “Do you want to know how never to forget anything ever again, mom?” And since I’m a lifelong learner always looking for new ways to do things, I said, “Sure, what can I do to guarantee I’ll never forget anything ever again?” 

    Here is what she said;   …you’re going to want to write this one down. 

    Are you ready?  (more…)